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Post by Admin on Mon Nov 02, 2009 9:50 am

I think most of us here are in some kind of relationship and some not.

But this aimed more at the people who are - If say, your relationship were to break down, what would you do? Would you remain here, be on the first flight out, jump off the highest building, look for another partner, go on the alcohol or whatever, what would you do?

To those of you are are not presently in a relationship but previously were, what did you do and how are you now?

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Post by Snowflake on Tue Nov 03, 2009 8:27 am

Since you ask sir,

I have been in quite a few relationships in my very short life... 2 longer ones... All I can say about them is that it takes two to tango.

If I was the one being left, I would look into the reason for WHY, I would then cross out jumping off the highest building...

If the girl was the only reason you came to that place, well, unless you really like your new friends, I would leave...

New partners I would not look for immediatly, as they are just rebound girls, find a few to have some jolly good time with, sure, but not GF's...

I would never go on the bottle, as I look at that as self pity, she left me, now I get drunk all the time to try to hide what I really feel. It would just catch up and be much worse at a later stage.

If I would want the girl back I would have to spend some time trying to talk to her, find out why she left me, could it be saved (9 out of 10 times in a long relationship you can save it), the key words here is to adjust your ways (if not to unreasonable) so she would be happy.

If I did not want to have her back I would talk to her and find out why she left and I would try to be "friends" with her as she would still have been a larger part of my life. Not to good friends, but still keep things civilized, no needs for name calling as we are both adults...

I would try to talk to the girl, see what happned and then judge the outcome of that conversation on what I would do...

If my girlfriend left me (We have been together now for almost 4 years) I would simply be her friend and fool around a bit. I might over time change city, but that would not be because of her, I met her after I had lived in this town for a while...

I hope that clear out a few things for you admin...

PS, there will always be some time after a breakup where you try to push away your true feelings, don't worry, they will come!!!

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Post by Admin on Tue Nov 03, 2009 11:05 am

................ or, just chase anything in a skirt! Whistle

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Post by Snowflake on Tue Nov 03, 2009 11:40 am

That is paragraph 4... Chase all the rebound girls!!!

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Post by Gillo on Tue Nov 03, 2009 12:22 pm

Good choice Admin...keeps away Pam's hairy playmate....
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Post by Admin on Tue Nov 03, 2009 12:34 pm

Yes, best to leave the 5 fingered widow out of work indeed.

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Post by BOON RAWD BREWERY CO LTD on Tue Nov 03, 2009 6:50 pm

Time to move on and remember the good times!! I wish you all the best..
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Post by Snowflake on Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:24 am

Admin wrote:................ or, just chase anything in a skirt!

Now that is a dangerous thing to do in this country!!!!!!

I heard that a man spent the night there on Monday, next thing will be Admin down at the trainstation looking for those strong "girls" that walks around there!!!

Serious, have fun but be careful...

Don't be a fool, wrap your tool!

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Post by C-Bert on Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:26 am

Admin wrote:................ or, just chase anything in a skirt! Whistle

I don't think this is such a bad thing. As Snowflake says, getting on the booze and chasing after other girls will only be a temporary fix and will leave you feeling bad, perhaps worse in the end but it's easy to preach the 'sensible approach' to a breakup, especially when you're not the one breaking up.

I say do what you gotta do, be silly and frivolous but at the same time, know that you are not helping anything and that, eventually, you will have to approach the breakup in a more serious way (i.e. move on, recover or try to patch things up).
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Post by Snowflake on Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:43 am

I am starting to like C-Berts posts now!

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Post by C-Bert on Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:49 am

Snowflake wrote: I am starting to like C-Berts posts now!

Evidently, I'm doing something wrong then.
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Post by BOON RAWD BREWERY CO LTD on Wed Nov 04, 2009 8:57 am

C-Bert,

I think Snowflake fancies you
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Re: What would you do if ........

Post by Snowflake on Wed Nov 04, 2009 1:47 pm

Well, I will from now on show my true face to people...

I will be nice to the people I like, and not so polite to the people I do not like...

Sorry lads, time to be mean to you people again!!!


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Post by taniabear on Wed Nov 04, 2009 6:59 pm

hmmmm an interesting thing to ponder Admin.
well I have had my fair share of relationship breakups in thailand (and Oz!) and I am a bit of a bridge burner! when my last thai b/f went off to lanta without me knowing he was going and taking my money with him i got even! next time i saw him i walked right up to him and in front of his friends i slapped his face hard! JJ was there too!! (ask him for verification if you like) I Didn't get my jewelry or money back but the violence made me feel better!
Forget the drink......grab life by the balls and move on! There's too much fun to be had and there's more to life than relationships.
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Post by BOON RAWD BREWERY CO LTD on Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:19 am

taniabear wrote:hmmmm an interesting thing to ponder Admin.
well I have had my fair share of relationship breakups in thailand (and Oz!) and I am a bit of a bridge burner! when my last thai b/f went off to lanta without me knowing he was going and taking my money with him i got even! next time i saw him i walked right up to him and in front of his friends i slapped his face hard! JJ was there too!! (ask him for verification if you like) I Didn't get my jewelry or money back but the violence made me feel better!
Forget the drink......grab life by the balls and move on! There's too much fun to be had and there's more to life than relationships.


grab life by the balls = I think Admin would rather grab life by a big bouncy set of titties
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Post by taniabear on Thu Nov 05, 2009 8:22 am

hehehehehe indeed boon rawd..........of course i was metaphorically speaking as I myself do not have balls to grab!!
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